All the Things She Said...and didn't do to Protect the Kids!

CAS will be incredibly upset once they know I am speaking publicly. Other advocates who speak up against them are targeted by them, because how dare others seek accountability?

On your question of bad faith investigations, parents need to file materials to disprove CAS claims, while the CAS invents new claims as each previous claim is disproved, in effect, you have to jump through endless hoops. This piece has been terrifying, more details to follow!

Each time you disprove a CAS claim in court with adequate evidence to satisfy a Judge, you need to seek an order for bad faith costs at that time or step in the case.

 You need to address the claims they make by affidavit before the court

point out the conduct outside the court that is harmful to the interests of the children.

Always highlight the needs of the children more then your needs as parents.

Point out how CAS conduct damages the attachment needs of the children.

Judges rely too much on the "presumptive rule" that the CAS is right and only near the end of a case are willing to make a finding of bad faith with only modest costs - remember you can't claim "damages" - that would be a civil lawsuit in civil court as a separate action

CAS uses outside lawyers who are experts at defeating parents, which is incredibly sad but true.

Generally your case will end as a Summary Judgment hearing when the CAS wants one, not you.

CAS is the "applicant" and they control the case even as they abuse the rules, which is terrifying.

This is information shared by other advocates who the CAS is also after because how dare they? With all of the evidence I have, they are still not afraid.

Told you it was Worthy of a Netflix pitch at the very least!

Imagine a CAS worker telling your children that are your mother and her lawyer have no right to tell your dad to put you in danger?

I literally begged him December onwards to let me drop off and pick up the boys so that I could be at ease, since learning he had put their lives in danger. Instead of doing right by our children, he claimed parental alienation and has avoided all contact with our children since June 7th (49 days as of July 26th).

49 days, no contact from him and his parents, nor any family member for that fact, in spite of texts, calls and voicemails. My youngest son adores him, he chose to alienate himself, never once did I prevent him. His ego and pride were too much to keep his children safe and now it seems it is getting in the way of his ability to remember what their phone number is ? Better now than later that they choose to not be a part of my kids lives.

I suspect I know why, but never thought that the fixation on material things (mainly the matrimonial home, more to come on that later) would ever get in their way of having a relationship with the boys, I sadly thought they loved them. Love makes you feel and wonder eh?

I get you do not care about me, but I didn't think he would hurt the boys in the manner that he has. I pick the pieces up every single day when both boys wonder why daddy or their grandparents haven't called back? I am honoured to protect and love my children each and every single day, and would do it a 1000 times over.

It is just incredibly gut wrenching when you realize that the family you were married into was far worse than your gut ever suspected.

I am at peace knowing they are safe with me and not being emotionally harmed by angry grandparents who feel slighted that their mother stood up for her legal rights, her children's rights and took matters into her own hands. I guess they forgot who I was over the years....this is not about anything other than getting safety, justice and accountability for my children. The saddest part of all of this is that the courts CAS will still insist the boys belong with both sides, equally.Make it make sense.

Actually, enough...the chapter of the Ontario Children's Aid Society who has absolutely destroyed my children's wellness and sense of safety and their right to feel loved or seen for that matter by the other side, is the Peel Children's Aid Society.

Peel CAS worker, reassigned to my case maliciously told my incredibly bright, older son, 10 at the time that she intentionally went to their grandparents house the day after I told her she was not to interview my kids without the conditions promised by her manger and their legal team in spite of the Society as they like to refer to themselves, that my kids would be protected:

Stuff she told my eldest, 10 at the time:

"Tell your mom her lawyer cannot tell your father to not drink and drive."

Add insult to injury, when my son shared details of when his father drove with open beer in the car and how he did it "many, many, many, many times" and expressed concerns as he had been learning about addictions when in grade 3 at school, last year, he was told, "Just chill, just let me be." The same reassigned, experienced worker who continued the investigation had the audacity to tell my son a brave child in need of protection from the wreckless actions of his father in the past ,

"How do you know your dad drank, show me proof, where are the cans?"

Yes, she literally destroyed my child to fulfill an agenda and get the case closed, in spite of their track record in the media for intentionally keeping files open to ensure funding keeps flowing in.

Money and power will really make you do some evil things.